Bethlehem Press

Monday, July 13, 2020

The Family Project: Ice-cream intervention for bickering children

Friday, May 8, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Focus

Q. My three children ages 8, 11 and 13, constantly bicker. What can I do to keep them from fighting?

The problem here, according to panelist Joanne Raftas, is sibling rivalry. “The children are vying for the attention of the parents,” Raftas said.

This rivalry is normal, Erin Stalsiz said. “Siblings fight, and it is a normal part of growing up. You could let them work things out as long as they are not hurting each other. But if it gets out of hand, have parents take turns and limit the interaction amongst the children if they cannot get along,” Stalsitz said.

Project Hope: Helping to feed needy families

Tuesday, May 5, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Local News

For more than 30 years, Project Hope of Easton has provided a winter holiday dinner for some 600 persons in need in the Lehigh Valley. This spring, the 501(c)(3) charity is expanding its efforts to feed the hungry in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Project Hope is helping provide food to families with children now unable to access lunches through the Easton and Wilson schools that closed last month. The new program provides weekly pizzas and meals to those with vouchers that are given out at local shelters and food pantries

The Family Project: Screen time and encouraging son’s skills

Friday, May 1, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Focus

Q. My son is in elementary school and is really into computers and his iPad. How do I encourage him to pursue this interest as a career, while continuing to be a good parent, and limit his access to the computer?

There is a difference between playing games and using learning modules,” panelist Pam Wallace said.

“If he starts creating things or spends time learning how things work, that is different,” said Wallace.

“No matter what you are doing, screen time changes the brain,” said panelist Mike Daniels.

The Family Project: Pandemic can’t overrule custody agreement

Friday, April 17, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Focus

Q. My ex-husband and I have a court-ordered visitation schedule, and he wants to continue with that visitation order during the coronavirus pandemic. The children are with me. I have not been sending them to their father’s home. Their father is not in agreement with me, What are some ways to handle this situation?

Panelist Mike Daniels took the lead in dealing with this question, including checking with the courts.

The Family Project: Be creative to cope with coronavirus

Saturday, April 11, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Focus

Second of two parts

“The Family Project” panel shares techniques to cope with “stay-at-home” orders for coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic.

Being creative during social distancing and staying at home was suggested by several panel members.

“There’s something to be said for allowing children time to create, problem-solve and entertain themselves,” panelist Chad Stefanyak said, adding, “You might be surprised with what they come up with.”


Monday, April 6, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Local News

‘All Creatures Great & Small’

As a result of Pennsylvania’s order to shut down all non-essential businesses in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic, owners and operators of everything from restaurants to hair salons have had to deal with the impact on their employees and customers.

Establishments that offer both essential and non-essential services, such as The Christmas City Veterinarian Hospital on West Broad Street, face the challenge of finding creative ways to meet essential needs without jeopardizing public health and safety.

Pandemic pet care

Monday, April 6, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Local News

As a pet owner, I have wondered about any risks to my cat Moxie getting the coronavirus from me, or vice-versa. I was relieved to find some of the answers on the American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA) website.

To begin with, the site said that non-porous surfaces, such as countertops and door knobs transmit viruses better than porous materials, such as pet fur. That’s because porous, especially fibrous, materials absorb and traps the virus. That makes it harder to contract by simply touching.

The Family Project: Coping in the time of coronavirus

Saturday, April 4, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Focus

First of two parts

“The Family Project” panel shares strategies to cope with “stay-at-home” orders for coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic.

Pam Wallace, Project Child program coordinator, has grown children living in Brooklyn, N.Y., and Oakland, Calif., which are coronavirus “hotspots.”

Said Wallace, “I try to check in with them every day, either by phone, FaceTime or Zoom. It gives me some peace to find them adjusting well and healthy.”

As with other panelists, Wallace also checks in on friends and relatives she hasn’t spoken with in awhile.

The Family Project: Mother’s son is a parent by another name

Friday, March 27, 2020 by CAROLE GORNEY in Focus

Q. My son is married to a lovely woman who has two children ages 10 and 8. He has taken on a parenting role with them since their father is completely out of the picture. The children seem to like my son and respect him, but he refers to them as “my wife’s kids.” This bothers me because it seems that he doesn’t see the children as belonging to him or being part of a family together. How can I bring this up to him?

The first question that was raised came from panelist Mike Daniels, who asked if the son referred to “my wife’s kids” in front of the children.